When I hear of someone that has passed, is passing or will soon pass, I get a different feeling than others do. When I hear of a death, after I get my selfish ego out of the way, I do feel peace. Because I understand that the person who has just passed away is on his or her way home and they are no longer in pain. That person will be re-united with previous family members who have gone before him or her. They are free of the struggles that occur here on earth. They are no longer questioning the why's of humanity. They now see all the answers they had questions to while living here on earth.

Their soul is now free and has entered the kingdom of heaven. It suffers no more. When we wake up and become aware of what is truly happening it just makes more sense. From reading Dr. Michael Newton's books, Journey of the Souls and Destiny of the Souls, I have learned that every thing that happens to us happens for a reason and we are all exactly where we need to be at this very moment and for all the moments to still come. It is human for everyone to feel hurt, compassion, sorrow and anguish and to even question why. The real question here is not why did this happen, but how can I understand better the real reason this happened. When questions arise it just means we do not understand. It means we are searching for an answer. When we do understand something there is no reason to question it. If we can just understand why people die when there seems to be no good reason, if we can just understand that part of it, then maybe that will help us.

I believe that before we came down to earth we had a conversation with God. We told him what we wanted to learn while on our journey through life on earth. We picked several things that needed to either accomplish or that we need to learn. We chose the people in our lives. We chose them while we were still in heaven so when we came to earth they would be here to help us learn our lessons. We chose our family. Every single person in our family agreed to come to earth to help us on our journey.

So for the tragedy that happens for no reason, well it really does have a reason. A tragedy can either make us realize something or it can solely be for the experience of those involved. We need to see it not as a personal attack on ourselves or for the tragedy to make us feel guilty of anything. It is a life lesson that someone needed to go through and that all parties involved already spoke to God about the tragedy before coming into reality here on earth. This was their path they were on and no matter what we think or feel that we could or could not have done to save them, this still needed to happen. It needed to happen in the very way that the ocurrence took place.

The person's life purpose had been completed and now its soul needs to return home to heaven. Their time on earth has been completed.

Death is also our Soul's Birthday into Heaven. It really is a time to celebrate this person or people who have passed and to be happy for them and happy to have known them even if they are leaving us. They are entering into the unknown and it's a new beginning for them. It is their Birth into eternity. To me that is a wonderful place to be.

If we can look at death that way it may make it easier on those who are grieving and cannot accept what has just happened. If we can say it was a blessing to have known that person and my life is better because of that person, that is truly a gift we need to cherish. It is not for us to question or judge. It is up to us to deal with what happened and trust that God knows why this happened and that the person's soul is now safe and back in heaven where it belongs. If we can truly understand that God did not do this to hurt any one of us. It happened as it was planned out to happen. This is where we can find peace inside ourselves.

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It took me a while to get the forgiveness thing. I never understood what everyone was talking about nor did I know the impact it really does have on my well being until just recently. I have finally come to understand the meaning of this word.

When we don't forgive someone for hurting us it does cause us pain. The anger or resentment we hold for that person attacks our body not the person we think we are hurting. It's a normal reaction to want revenge, or hold a grudge. We all have done it or are still doing it. But the reality of this word forgiveness goes much deeper than we think.

Because we hold feelings that are not of love, these feelings manifest themselves inside us and eat away at our bodies. The anger or resentment we have towards someone else just mirrors back at us and that is when illness is born.

These feelings take on a more powerful meaning than the words we use to describe the person who has hurt us. The words turn into feelings of hate and it is those feelings that attack our insides, not the insides of the other person. It's all because we are not seeing through our eyes with love. If we could only take our blinders off and see. We need to start looking at those that hurt us in other ways so we can get past these issues of hurt. If we can truly look at a situation and understand that not everyone thinks the same way we do, not everyone responds the same way we do. If we can understand that much of it, we could be on the path to forgiveness. We don't need to excuse the act of what has happened to us, but we need to forgive the person for not knowing what they have done to us. They do not know what they have done. They truly don't and if we can stop and understand that, then we could see more clearly that when people hurt us that it is just a reflection of the hurt they already feel inside of them.

Why is forgiveness so hard for us to do? Because we are human and this may be one of our lessons we need to learn. But we need to learn it in order to get past it. We need to learn the lesson so we can move on with our life. So it doesn't get inside of us and cause illness and stop us from living the life we are meant to live.
 

After I learned what the word forgiveness actually meant I took a look at everyone around me and everyone in my life. I was able to let go of a lot of junk that was inside of me that was not for my highest good. I looked at everyone that had hurt me and I finally understood. They did not hurt me on purpose, they did not really mean to hurt me. They were hurt inside themselves and their anger was just being pointed in my direction and the trigger was being pulled by their emotions, not mine. When I could understand that, it was then that I could forgive them. I was able to forgive the people who hurt me for they did not understand themselves what they were actually doing.

I am now able to live in a world of much greater peace and love than I had ever dreamed of. The life we are meant to live is that of love and compassion for each other. If we can love and understand our neighbor then we have also been awakened to the way God wants us to live.

 

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Oprah Winfrey says she was born unwanted. 

No one is ever born unwanted but that is how she felt. That is still how some of you feel today. We are never unwanted. It is only the feelings that we feel that make us think we are unwanted. 

Oprah would not be the person she is today if she did not come into this world the way she did. It was all part of the divine plan, her divine plan. 

Her thinking that she was unwanted is the exact same thing that has been her driving force behind her. She has strived to become what she now is because of where she came from, from where she thinks she came from, from being unwanted.

She chose this life of strife, burden, shame, humility and judgment to teach her self that she can do what most people think they cannot do. She has come through her life with flying colors and so much more. She has proven to herself that she is in control of her life and she has not given any one her personal power.  

She came into this world as a Master Teacher, even though she did not know it as she was growing up. She is teaching to the world and she has finally found comfort in herself and in her world.  

We are all here for our own experiences. We are all here to shine in our own way. We are all teachers, to someone. We teach by our very presence. We teach and we learn.

Oprah is not the only one who can achieve great things, we all have this ability in us if we allow ourselves to dream our own dream by listening to our own hearts and taking that first step to soar above what we think we cannot achieve. It is only our belief in our thinking that is holding ourselves back.

We can do or be whatever we want if we can all look within our hearts and take that first step just like Oprah did. She had nothing at an early age and was going through pain and sorrow as she was growing up, but she stepped forward with her heart and she began to see the doors open for her to keep her moving forward.

Are you aware of who you are and what you brought to this world yourself? How do you feel at the end of your day and can you see the people in your life that you have reached out to? Can you answer yourself when you ask who did you inspire today?

 
You too can move forward with your life if you choose to.

              Angel Amy 

 

 

 

I did something at work the other day that I noticed wasn't something I would normally do. It had to do with putting a picture up on the wall where I was sitting. As I put the picture up I was saying to myself why am I doing this.  A few minutes after I did this my boss came over and I could tell she was irritated by this. I took the picture down from the wall and later apologized for doing this.   What was happening to me at that time?

  

What was happening was the energy of your boss was more powerful than your energy at the time and your boss was attracting this experience into her reality.

You boss was sending out energy that would come back to her and show her how she was feeling. If she was feeling negative at that time then her actions were attracting this negative experience.

By you witnessing this you can see how the energy works and makes you more aware of things that happen to you.

If you were feeling really good and in a high vibrational place within yourself her reaction would not have bothered you. You would have just brushed it off and not thought twice about it. But where you noticed your boss's reaction and took it on and you also felt the negativity, what that is telling you is that you were in a place where your vibration was not as high as it should have been to allow her negativity to flow past you.

When you can keep yourself in a high vibration place during your day you will find that another persons energy will not affect you.  It is when you are in the lower vibration place that you also see the negativity that shows up around you.

When you can be happy and love life you lift your vibration up and things that happen around you during your day tend to be more pleasant.

Choose to be happy. Choose to love the life you are now living.

Angel Amy

 

 

 

You are the one who is always in control of your own life.

It is always our own thinking that allows us to move forward in life just as much as it can hold us back. It is always our own choice to choose for ourselves. If we can let go of another person's opinion and listen to our own thoughts and feelings we are in a much better place to make our own choices. It is always our own perception of the way we see things in our reality that is the defining reason we choose the experiences we choose. It is always our own choices in life that has caused us to be where we are now. It is always our own self that will either cast blame on a situation or choose to take responsibility for it.  It is always our own beliefs we hold onto that will either move us forward or keep us stuck where we are.  It is always our own awareness that prompts us to notice what is really going on in order to make the changes that we need to make with ourselves in order to move forward. 

We are the ones in control of our own lives.

If you are in a situation you do not like, change something about it. Change something about the way you see it. Change something about the way you are controlling your thoughts. Change your perception of it. Change the way you choose your next step. Detach from the emotion of the experience and you will be able to see more clearly what you are thinking and seeing.

Be willing to give something up. Be willing to see your situation in a new light. Be willing to shine new light on it. Be willing to accept change. Change always moves you forward to put you in a new place and will open up the next door for you. 

You can move forward if you choose to look inside and feel what your own heart is telling you.

Listen to your heart. Open your heart.

A closed heart is hurt and cannot see. An open heart loves and enjoys all the things that life has to offer. An open heart does not judge, it allows all things to be. 

Listen to your heart and take that first step to choosing something different in your life so you can continue to move forward.

Angel Amy

 

 

Turn on your Bright Light. 

We all have light inside of ourselves. It is always there but we ourselves are the only ones who can turn it on. 

When we can realize this we can then be the example for others. It is only when we shine our own light that we then shine it out for others to see.   Sometimes that is all that is needed to help someone.  Not everyone can hear the advice that is given to them. Sometimes it is by seeing another person that one gets inspired to step out of their own dark place where they are and can then begin to shine their own light.

If you are in a place inside yourself that you can recognize as a place where you do not want to be, if you can understand that you are the only one that can get yourself out, you are more able to bcome aware of what your next step is.

If you have someone in your reality who you view as being light, by all means look at them and see what it is that they have inside of them that you do not have inside yourself.  It is always a bright light that is in all of us.  You have it too but you are the only one who can ignite this light in order for it to shine for you.  It is your choice to shine your light or not.  You can shine it or you can stay where you are. Either way it is always your choice.

The problems or issues you have in your life do not define the person you are. Your issues are only there to give you the message that you are facing a challenge, a challenge that you have chosen to walk through while you are here. Once you can recognize your challenge you can better understand that you have what you need inside of yourself to walk through your challenge and you will be able to walk through it with greater ease. If you do not believe you can walk through your challenge then the challenge you are faced with will continue to repeat.  It is only when you choose to believe in yourself that you make the choices you need to make in order to move forward.

When you begin to believe in yourself you then ignite your own bright light. Once your light has been lit you will find that it will continue to grow. You can stay where you are if you choose to or you can shine your light and begin to see yourself as the powerful being that you came here to be.

Take that first step so you can begin to shine the light that is inside of yourself.

Once you find your light you can begin to shine it for others to see.

Angel Amy

 

 

 

What we believe is what we get.

If we believe we can do something, the universe will deliver ways for our belief to come to fruition. The doors will open for you to bring your belief into your reality. 

When you believe you cannot do something, the universe will also deliver that into your reality. 

The universe does not judge if something is good or bad. The universe just delivers to us our belief.

If you believe you are not ready to move forward with life, a job, a situation, anything, the universe will keep showing you that you are not ready.  If you believe you are ready to move forward, the universe will keep showing you your next step in order to move forward.

It is all about what we each believe that determines how we either move forward or stay stuck where we are. Being stuck is just a sign that you need to make a choice and you are not willing to do that.  Make a choice and your world will begin to change for you.

It is always our own choice to move forward or to stay where we are. We are the only ones who can make the choices we need to make in our lives.  Making a choice moves you forward, not making a choice keeps you stuck. 

We are all here for our own reasons. We are the only ones who can make the choice to move in our life or to stay where we are.  If you are happy, keep going. If you are unhappy, make the choice to change something about what you believe. 

The people who believe they can achieve happiness, do. The people who believe they are healthy, are. The people who believe they can be wealthy, are. 

It isn't enough to want to be, do or have these things. You have to believe it. Wanting to be, do or have something, keeps you there. It keeps you in the state of wanting. It is only when you begin to believe you can be, do or have something that the universe begins to show you that belief.

If you truly believe and feel you are unimportant and unworthy in this world that is what the universe will show you, experiences that keep you feeling unimportant and unworthy. It is when you believe and feel you are important and worthy, that the universe shows you experiences in your life to keep you feeling important and worthy.

 It is all about what you believe to be true for you that is true for you. The universe delivers to us exactly what we each believe for ourselves.

If you feel unimportant and unworthy, you can change if you want to. You are the only one who can change this belief about yourself. Believe you can and you will.

Each one of us is an important part of this world, it is up to each one of us to believe it.

Angel Amy

 

 

 

When things don't seem to go the way we want them to go, it is always our own belief about the situation that is causing the experience.

You may say to yourself, that you want to be happy but things just keep going the wrong way and it's not your fault.

When you are thinking like this all you are doing is keeping the situations in your life there. They keep coming to you, they keep showing up because this is what you are thinking and believing to be true.

You have to look at the real reason your life is not going the way you want it to if you want to move forward. If you believe that other people are doing things to you, then this is what will continue. It is only when you can look at your own feelings and stop blaming the outside world that you will then be able to see what is really going on in your life.

If you are always confronted with angry people, negative or frustrating situations, a sense of low self worth and confusion, then stop and ask yourself, what is it in yourself that is attracting these experiences into your reality?  What are you feeling inside your self that could be bringing these experiences to surface?  The reason they are in your reality is so you can look at them in order to release them from your emotions. The negative experiences show up for you to show you that you are holding onto these emotions inside yourself.

When you can understand this, you can then work on releasing them so you can move on with your life and begin to bring in the experiences that you do want into your life.  To release an emotion you have to look at the emotion and ask what is this showing you.

For example: If you see angry people in your life a lot, ask yourself, what am I feeling angry about?  Feel your anger that you have inside yourself and ask yourself what is it that you can learn from this anger?  Why am I feeling angry?   

If you see it out there in your world then it is coming from inside your self.

Once you can see what it is you have been angry about, you can then release it and then move into forgiveness.  This is the path to moving forward in your life and it is always your choice to choose to do this or to stay on the negative path.

When you can stop blaming others for your negative experiences in your life, you have taken the first step to self awareness and this first step is what you need to keep moving forward on your path.

When you can change your thinking you can change your world.

Angel Amy

 

 

 

What do you see?

  

We all see life differently. No two people see everything exactly the same way. When you can remember this you can better look at your own life and make your own choices and decisions for yourself rather than asking for another person's opinion.

We all came here with different intentions, different experiences to go through. So even though you are going through an experience it doesn't mean that the person you are asking to help you can see exactly what it is you need to go through for your highest good.   We all need help with life that's for sure, but when we receive help we really need to feel with our own heart if that decision is the correct one for our experience here.

Sometimes the choices we make need to just come from our own intuition, without any outside help. Always listen to guidance that anyone gives you but also feel what that guidance is saying to your self. You are the only one who can truly make the decisions for you life. When you allow some one else to make your choices and decisions for you, all you are doing is giving your personal power to someone else which takes it away from you.

When you can release the need to be right or wrong and just have an experience, it takes away the guilt you feel after the experience if you have made a wrong choice. If you made a right choice then that is all the more reason to feel the positive feelings that you will then experience. 

When you are faced with a decision that you don't know how to deal with, step out of the picture and look at it from a different place. Then you are able to ask yourself, what do you see? Is there a lesson here for me to learn from? Am I seeing things from a place of love or am I using pain and hurt to make my choices? 

When you stop and listen to your heart you will know you are making the choices you need to make in life from a place that no one else can see. This place is showing you that you are on the path you are meant to be on. This would be for your highest good.

 Angel Amy

 

 

Our Beliefs are our Blocks 

When you can really understand that we are the only ones holding ourselves back from becoming the best that we can be, you can look at your blocks more easily and identify them so you can walk through them.

We form our own blocks and barriers. We are the ones doing this not anyone else. We often think that other people are responsible for our negative experiences, but if we really look at what is going on we will find that we are the ones holding the key to our own happiness. We are the ones holding onto our beliefs that we are not good enough, no one does this to us, we do it to ourselves.

A belief is nothing more than a thought you keep thinking.  It is only true for your self, not anyone else. Your belief is what you think to be true at this time. We all have our own beliefs. All of my beliefs are what I see as true for me. All of your beliefs are true for you. If we do not agree on the same belief, it only means that what you believe to be true and what I believe to be true are only true for each of us. Our beliefs do not make a truth. They appear real for the one thinking the thought and believing in it. 

Our beliefs are energy blocks that can only be locked and unlocked by the person holding onto the belief. If something is not working for you all you have to do is change your belief. When you change your belief you are unlocking it and setting it free. 

If we believe we cannot do something we have created an energy block.  It does not mean it is true. You may think it is true for you but it is only true for you because you believe it to be so. When you change your belief to be positive you are unlocking the block that is there. 

There is nothing that any one of us cannot do if we choose to do it. If we have the passion in our heart to do something and we feel we cannot, it is only our own belief that keeps us from it.

Our own beliefs control the way we live. If there is something that you have wanted to do or wanted to have and you are holding the belief that you cannot do it or have it, if you can change your belief about it you will see that the only thing that was stopping you from having or doing what you wanted, was the belief about it. 

My beliefs in my life have changed with every belief I have already unlocked.

Angel Amy

 

 

It's your choice

When we think another person is right, knows better or more than we do we are giving our personal power away to them. We don't know what the other person has come here to learn or to do. All we really need to understand is that we are here for our own reasons.  No one really is in charge of us.  When we can say to ourselves, this is my life and I am now taking charge, we begin to live our lives for ourselves and we allow our selves to shine.

No one can say what is right or wrong for us. No one. Only we know what is right or wrong for us and only we can choose to live in the world we want to live in. We have the ability to make our own choices if we allow ourselves to choose.

We can only choose for ourselves when we finally come to understand that we came here to learn for ourselves, to live our own lives and to be the best that we can be. Not to look at someone else and compare ourselves to them but to actually be the best we can be.

When we allow the opinion of another to effect us, we are giving our power to them. We are allowing their opinion to mean more than our own opinion. We have a choice to choose the way we see things. We can choose to listen to our own hearts and only allow positive thoughts and feelings to be present within us or we can allow the opinion of others to be our view of what we see.

 We can choose our own thoughts in any situation.  It is only when you listen to your own thoughts that you are within your own power. No one can take away the thoughts you think. They are yours to keep forever. 

When you can learn to listen to your own thoughts about what you want to do in life you are stepping onto the path you are meant to be on.   Once you find yourself on your own path you will then see your life will reflect back to you all that you came here to be. 

It is your choice as to how you live your life. We are all here to choose for ourselves. When you choose from your own heart you are choosing to be in alignment with the very reason that you came here for.

I choose to see through my own eyes. I choose to listen to my own heart. I choose to give love in all situations so I can receive love in return.

I choose to live this life with passion.

I chose to come here and be the best me that I can be. I chose to come here to follow my own heart for that is where my path leads me.  

When I follow my own heart I arrive at the place where I find love. It has been here all along, I just needed to find it within my own heart.

Angel Amy

 

 

How do I set boundaries for a co-worker who keeps annoying me?

The boundaries you need to set are not with your co-worker. The boundaries you need to set are within you. You cannot control anything outside yourself.  What you need to control is your reaction to whatever is going on. You can control the way you react to your experience.  When you understand this you will be able to bring yourself to the place where you can then see what is really going on.

When things happen to you that make you angry, annoyed, irritated, etc., stop and ask yourself, what is this experience showing me?  What I can learn from what is going on here?

When you then step back and look at the experience and answer your question you will be able to see that this experience is teaching you something that you needed to learn. If it is an experience that keeps happening to you then that is just validation that whatever it is that is bothering you needs to be released. 

The only way for your situation to stop is for you to figure out what is the lesson in your experience. Once you figure out what the lesson is you can then work on releasing the emotion from inside yourself so you can move on with your life. If the experience keeps happening it surely is an emotion that you are holding onto inside yourself and these experiences will not end until your release that emotion.

Your body is talking to you but you are not hearing it. Feel the emotion you feel when you think about this person. Is it anger, fear, anxiety, rage or something else? Identify the feeling. Then work on releasing this emotion. 

In order to release the emotion you need to understand that the people bothering you are only there to help you learn your lesson. Once you have learned the lesson the people will either go away or just not show up anymore.

The most common lesson to learn for the situations like yours is self worth. When your self worth is low you attract these people into your life with that emotion. Nothing needs to be said to anyone. What you need to do is work on building up your self worth, your self esteem and you will see the situation begin to change.

When you can forgive everyone involved in your experience you then release the negative attachment that is holding you in the place you do not want to be. Forgive yourself for your negative thoughts and forgive the other person for they are only there to show you what you needed to learn. 

If you can understand this you will be on your way to not having these experiences show up in your life. You will be able to then move on knowing you have released a big part of what has been holding you back.

Our experiences always show us what is going on inside ourselves and it is usually something that needs to be released. Once you can identify and release the negative feelings you will have taken the first step to heal your life.

Angel Amy

 

 

 

When things don't go your way it is a pretty good indication that it is time for a change. One of the things that can keep you where you are is your own fear of changing. Change is always good, it moves you forward.  Choose to make a move. Any move is always a move forward. If you don't make some sort of move to change the things in your life, your life will stay the same way it is now. When you move forward with the intention of your desired outcome you will be paving the way for things in your life to now change. 

Our fear plays a big part in how we all move forward.  If we allow fear to have a hold on us we will find it hard to finally take that step when we are ready.  Live your life in the way you want to live it.  Do not allow anyone to tell you what to do or what not to do with your life.  We are each in control of our own lives and all decisions need to come from ourselves. They need to come from our heart. 

When we listen to our hearts we will be moving forward on the right path.

When we can look at what it is that is stopping us from moving forward we can begin to work through that. It is usually fear that has the biggest control over what we want to do or what we don't want to do.

Fear is false evidence appearing real. When we can understand this we can better look at what is really going on. If we can take that first step to walk through our fear we would realize that the fear alone was the only thing holding us back. 

We can either allow fear to control our decisions or we can learn to walk through the fear knowing we are always safe and taken care of, which is what we eventually learn after we have walked through our fear. It just takes that first step to get your self moving in the right direction. Once you have taken that first step you will find that other doors will begin to open.

Allow your heart to rule your life and walk through your fear.

Angel Amy

 

 

 

How do we find our purpose?

To find our purpose in life all we have to do is feel what is in our hearts. Our purpose isn't about making money or doing something that someone else wants us to do. Our purpose in life is to live it and enjoy it.

When we listen to our hearts we are then on our path. When we can follow our own hearts the road ahead begins to open up and somehow moves us forward with very little effort. It is when we struggle with life that we are not on the path we are meant to be on.

If you look at someone who is struggling with life you will see they most likely have not accomplished a lot of what they wanted to. For when we struggle we are actually resisting the flow of life. When we release our tension to force things to happen the way we want them to we are then allowing life to happen for our highest good. 

When we can release judgment of the experiences that happen to us we leave the door open for love and forgiveness to enter. We cannot judge anything and expect life to flow smoothly, it will not. We are meant to have all our experiences.  It is only your judgment of them that makes them good or bad. They are all meant to be. One of the reasons we came to this world is to experience. Experience life. When you can release the judgment that an experience is bad and look at it as something you were meant to go through, you will find you do not take on the baggage that comes with that judgment. You will then be free to move on to the next step on your journey.

When we can give love to all things, our experiences, our imperfections, our mistakes, our challenges, our losses, and our triumphs, we are allowing the flow of life to take us to our next step.

Forgive yourself as you forgive others. Love yourself as you love others. 

We all have free will and we all choose how we see life. If you are struggling with your life, stop and change the way you are living. You are not meant to live that way. If we can change the way we look at things, the things we look at change. They always do. Nothing is ever really what we think it is, especially our experiences. 

It is all good and it is all love. No matter which way you choose to see it.

Angel Amy

 

 

 

Every time I go to this one particular store I always get an angry sales person. Why does this happen every single time I go to this store?

If you are experiencing this every time you go to this store it is because you have attracted this into your reality. You must have gone there in the past at some point and had an angry sales clerk that you then spoke or thought about as you returned later on. 

You are continuing to create an angry sales clerk because you spoke of an angry sales clerk in the past. This is a good example of how you attract what you think. You are holding the thought and feeling of the angry sales person inside of yourself. 

The angry sales clerk will not be there as soon as you can let go of that one experience. Once you let go of that you should then speak about the nice sales person that is going to be there the next time you go there.  This may take several times before it actually happens, or before you actually believe this. But once you believe you can change this, you will change it.

When we hold onto something that we do not want, it will keep appearing until we can let go of the situation. This has nothing to do with the angry sales person and everything to do with the vibration you are holding onto about the sales person.

We create our own experiences on some level. Change the way you feel about what you see and the things you see will change. 

Angel Amy

 

 

What does it mean when people say "Go inside yourself"?

Going inside yourself means to look at what you are thinking and what you are feeling.  Look are your beliefs.  Feel your intuition.  Listen to what your body is saying to you.

You usually hear this phrase when you are asking a question that you want the answer to. The answers are always found inside yourself.  When you look outside yourself for the answer you are giving your personal power away. This means when you ask others for the answer to questions that you should be asking of yourself, you are giving your power to the others you have just asked. 

You are the only one who can say what is right for you and what is not right for you. You are the most important person in your life.  You need to find out what is best for you with your own answers and not depend on others for your answers.

Your self worth needs to be stronger than anyone's rejection. When you can understand this phrase, you will have acquired the foundation to live your life for yourself so you can stop allowing the opinion of others to effect you in a negative way.  You will then be able to live your life for your highest good and on purpose.

So when you hear someone say, Go inside, what they mean is, stop and listen to yourself, listen to your feelings about the situation. Listen to what your heart is saying, and get out of your head and stop trying to analyze and/or make excuses for what you are asking. 

Keep in mind that no experience you have is wrong.  All experiences are meant to be walked through so you can have a better understanding of what it is you want or do not want as you move forward with your life. When you stop judging and just accept your experiences, you are then able to live your life from the place that is for your highest good.

You will never find true happiness for yourself until you are able to answer your own questions.

Go inside yourself to find the answers you are searching for.

Angel Amy

 

 

As we move forward into this New Year, look at your life with new awareness. Make this New Year all about yourself. Do what you want to do to make yourself happy. Understand that we are all here for our own reasons, lessons and experiences.

Each experience we have brings something with it. Walk through this new year knowing you cannot fail at anything. Any choice you make is the right choice for you and don't listen to anyone who tells you something different. What we choose to experience is all in Divine order and there should be no regrets for anything we have experienced. 

Everything we have gone through only strengthens us and teaches us something. There are no experiences that we have gone through that we were not meant to have gone through. Everything that happens to us, everything we go through has a purpose. There is always something to learn if we can just stop and look at the situations without emotions. When we detach from the emotions we are more able to see the reasons for what we have gone through.  

When it is time to move on with your life the universe will surely show you. Whether it's a job, relationship, your home, no matter what it is, if it is not working the way you thought it would and you are not happy then it's time to move on.  If you choose not to move on you will remain unhappy.  This is your choice.

Not everything in our lives is meant to last forever. Change is about moving forward. The things that no longer serve your highest good will surface so you can see that its time for a change.

We are never wrong in any decisions that we make. There is no failure. Failure is only something that happened to you that you see as not turning out the way you wanted it to.  It's ok. It's an experience. You need to have things happen to you if you want to move forward. Moving forward is the only goal any of us need. When we keep moving forward we keep living.

 Make this year all about moving forward so you can live your life for your highest good.

Angel Amy

 

 

Happy New Year!

As we enter 2011 keep in mind the most important thing you can do is to live your life for yourself.

Follow your own heart.

Accept everyone for who they are and not for what you expect them to be.

Listen to your own guidance and intuition.

Be true to yourself and you will be living your life purpose.

When you change the way you look at things, you can change the things you look at.

Walk through your fear knowing you cannot fail at anything.

See failure as nothing more than an experience you  needed to have in order to learn from.

See all things as experiences to learn from.

Look for the positive in all things.

Give yourself love as you give love to others.

Peace found out there, begins with peace in you.

Forgive yourself and you can then forgive others.

Know that you never walk in this reality alone.

Call on your Angels for help and trust that they hear you.

Live your life with love as you walk into 2011.

Expect great things and you will be making a change in what you will be attracting in your reality as you move forward in this next chapter of your life.

Angel Amy

 

 

Happy New Year to Everyone!

As we step into 2011 all we need to do is to look with expectations of love.  Give Love, feel Love, see Love, be Love.

The only New Years resolution anyone needs to make is to be open to love. Be open to seeing love in others and in all that is around us.  When you open yourselves to love, you are then allowing your life to unfold in the way it is meant to. Allow yourself to be who you truly are. Love yourself for you are and not for what you expect of yourself. Allow others to be who they are and love them for who they are and not for what you expect them to be.

When you send out love to others you are also receiving love for yourself.

When you say your New Year's resolutions and you do not stick to them, you end up beating yourself up or thinking you have let yourself down or you end up not even caring. Those are all negative thoughts that only bring more negativity into your reality.

When you can make a New Year's resolution to love, that covers everything. Love everyone including yourself and you will find more positive emotions as you enter into this new year of 2011.

Happy New Year to Everyone!

Angel Amy

 

 

Here are some meanings of some of the symbols that we see at Christmas time.

The Christmas tree remains green all year round and is a symbol of everlasting life.  All the needles point heavenward, making it a symbol of man's thoughts turning toward heaven.

The star was the heavenly sign of promises long ago. God promised a Savior for the world, and the star was the sign of fulfillment of His promise. 

The candle symbolizes that Christ is the light of the world, and when we see this great light we are reminded of He who displaces the darkness. The Candle gives light to a dark world. Jesus is the Light of the world. 

The wreath symbolizes the real nature of love. The Advent wreath has four candles. One candle is lit each Sunday before Christmas in anticipation of Christ's birthday.

The Wreath is a circle shape that shows, just like love, it has no end, and never stops.

The Holly plant represents immortality. It represents the crown of thorns worn by our Savior. The red Holly berries represent the blood shed by Him.  Holly is a shrub with spiny leaves and red berries. The leaves remain green throughout the year. Pagans thought its greenness was a promise that the sun would return. Early French and English families hung holly over their doors to symbolize a home in which Christ's birth is celebrated.

 

The Gift represents the gift of Love that God so loved the world that he gave his begotten son. Thanks be to God for his unspoken gift. The gifts given to Jesus by the wise men, and the gift of everlasting life given to the whole world through the atonement of Jesus Christ, and the gift of eternal life with our Heavenly Father available to us.

The Angels that heralded in the glorious news of the Savior's birth. The Angels sang Glory to God in the highest, on earth peace and good will toward men. 

The Bell represents the lost sheep that were found by the sound of the bell.  The bell symbolizes guidance and return. The church Bells rang to announce the birth of Jesus. They still ring today.

Christmas lights represent Christ as being the "Light of the World." Lights also represent stars. Candles were first used as lights on the Christmas tree.

Bows tied on gifts, shows we are all tied to each other with love as the family of mankind.

The candy cane represents the shepherds' crook. The crook on the staff helps to bring back strayed sheep to the flock.  

Christmas is about Love. When we can give Love from our hearts that really is all that matters. Make your own Christmas memories. As we all grow older we all want to give our families the things that we did not receive when we were children.  All any of us really wanted to receive was the gift of Love. We just became confused with what we were seeing when we looked through our human eyes.  Look through your spiritual eyes and let go of the concept of the material gift and begin to give with your heart if you want to find the true meaning of Christmas.

Angel Amy

 

 

What can I do for my friend who is ill at this time of the season? 

Illness, sickness, pain, suffering, does not know that it is a Holiday.

Things happen at Christmas time and other holiday times that we wish didn't have to happen. 

It is all about how we see these things that will allow us to walk through them with either a positive or negative outcome.

If we can offer love to those who are ill, sick or down, we are offering a vibration to them that they feel on some level of their being. They feel the love being sent and it does make a difference. The more love you send the more you are offering a sense of peace to the other person.

All any of us need to do at this Holiday time or anytime, when someone is sick, ill or down, or anyone at all, all we need to do is to give the love we have in our hearts.

This is the greatest gift we have to offer as when we give it, we too are receiving it.

Angel Amy

 

 

A Christmas message

  

The message at this Christmas time is to live from your heart. When you live from your heart life just seems to go smoother. It's only when you live from your head that you miss the true meaning of Christmas and the true meaning of life itself.

Many people say that it is not so easy to live from the heart especially at the Holiday Season. There is just too much to do and not enough money. This is where you can stop and ask yourself who or what is keeping you from living from your heart. 

If your attention is focused on the amount of money that you spend at the Christmas then now is your chance to change your thinking.  Change how you are viewing what is really going on. Only you have the power to change things and the power to change always comes from the heart.

Your bills will not get paid by worrying about them. They are there and nothing can change that, but you can change the way you view your bills.   Without your bills you would not be where you are now.  Without the electric bill you would not have lights, without the mortgage or rent to pay you would not have a place to live, without the lending companies that are there to help you, you cannot pay for your vehicle, with out the credit cards to cloth your children, without those bills where would you be?   Sometimes we have to be thankful for the resources we have that we use to be where we are in life.

When you look at your bills with anger and frustration, it only causes resistance to the flow of things and causes you to stay in that place of negativity.  When you can look at your bills and know that you are doing everything you can to provide for your family and yourself in this world, you then release the resistance of the flow of a positive feeling.  When you see your bills this way you change the way you feel and with that change in your thinking it then allows you to feel from your heart and not your head. 

Accept the things you cannot change.

We all have the option of which way we choose to see our lives. When you choose the negative way, that is where you will stay. When you choose the positive way that is where you will go.

Get out of your head and into your heart and then you will be able to find the meaning of this Holiday Season and the meaning of Christmas.

Angel Amy

 

 

 

Why is it when tragedy strikes, people you haven't seen in a while all of a sudden show up?

  

Because, when tragedy strikes, it is felt with the heart.  People live their every day lives from a human perspective mostly.  It is only when tragedy strikes that people are then able to bring their awareness into their hearts and are able to, for a little while anyway, live from that place. 

When things get back to normal people tend to go back to that human perspective again.  Normal human existence is lived on a level where the awareness of ones self only comes from their heads. Our lives are not so fulfilling when we stay in the reality of the human self.  You can live from the awareness of your heart and live a much more fulfilling life. 

When you can feel the difference and acknowledge the desire to live from a place with an open heart your life begins to change on all levels.

When we can realize fully with our humanness that we are here to live from the heart, we will find peace and joy in this world that we thought could not be found.

Angel Amy

 

 

Happy Thanksgiving Day

to everyone!

                                                                                                                     

We all have something to be thankful for. Even when some of you think you have nothing. The things that are the most important are not held in the hand they are felt with the heart. 

Love is the most important thing we all have to be thankful for and sometimes it is the one thing that we sometimes forget we have.

When we give thanks we are opening up our hearts.

  There is so much for each of us to still experience here on earth. Do not let your days go by without noticing the wonderful gifts that each of you have been given.

We each have a certain amount of time here on earth. Use your time to find the joy in this world. Do things you love to do and don't look back at anything that is not there to help you move forward. 

Choose to live your life from a place of love and you will find this is what your world will give back to you.

I am Thankful for this day and all my days still to come. I look forward to continuing to share my inspirations with you.

I am thankful for this opportunity to share with everyone and I look forward to being able to continue to share my inspirations as we walk together on this path of awareness and enlightenment. 

I give my Thanks to YOU!

Angel Amy

 

 

My teenagers just won't listen to me. How can I get them to hear what I am trying to tell them?

When you can stop expecting your teenagers to listen to you and start listening to them you begin to open up the channels for communication. Listen to why they want to do the things they do. Listen with an open heart and do not judge what it is they wish to do. 

 We all came here for our own experiences. Your children are here to learn from their own experiences not yours. When you take the need for control out of the equation you will begin to see the situations start to turn around. You will begin to see your children living a different way. Always keep in mind that any experience they have is neither good nor bad, it's only their experience for which they are learning something from.

Whenever anyone is confronted with a person who is trying to control a situation the message that is being sent, because of the control, is judgment. When anyone judges another, they are not allowing others to be who they came here to be.

We cannot control other people, we can only control the way we look at other people.   When we look at other people in a way that inspires them to live their life to fulfill their needs, not ours, we are giving them the support they need to make the proper choices without controlling any situation.

When you can let go of your need to control your teenagers you will be turning the situations around and your teenagers will begin to feel your support and will then change their course of action.

Angel Amy

 

 

 

Why do men always refer to being a baby when they see another man cry?

Feelings are something that people have a hard time sharing. We often keep our true feelings to ourselves. But this is the very reason we came to be in physical form, so we could experience feelings.   It is when we are comfortable with ourselves that we can share our true feelings with others openly. It is when we are not comfortable with ourselves that we tend to hide our true feelings.

The things that are hidden inside of us are the most difficult to share. When we come to the understanding of the human being that we truly are then we can allow our feelings to be shared openly.

Men have been conditioned to think that if they show compassion and love they are babies.   This is only a condition that has been passed down by people who themselves were not comfortable with their own selves. 

The feelings that we feel are genuine for each of us. We should not allow anyone else to tell us or suggest that we are less than anyone else because we have feelings. Feelings are a part of being human and that goes for both men and women. 

Our feelings are something we should be proud of and are the heart of who we are. Without feelings, we would walk around this earth in a very dull and dense state. When you think about that, why would anyone want to live without the feelings that we feel.

The next time you hear someone comment about a man who is showing his feelings, feel in your heart how good it feels to have feelings and be happy that you are able to feel.

Feelings are one of the gifts that have been given to us and to be able to openly show your feelings means you are living from a place of true authenticity. 

Angel Amy

 

 

 

What is a belief? 

 A belief is a thought that you keep thinking.  It is something that you believe to be true for yourself. A belief does not make something true it is only something you believe to be true.

If you believe something to be true in your reality, it is. If you believe something is not true in your reality, it is not. It is all about what you believe. Each person here has their own beliefs about everything. The thoughts you are thinking and believing in, weather or not they are true, are found within your belief. It is what you believe to be true that makes your truth true for you.

Our beliefs are what make our experiences for us. If you think and believe that you will never be able to make enough money to be happy, then that belief will begin to show up in your reality.  You will never make enough money to be happy. If you believe you will never meet anyone who you can be happy with then that is what you will get, people who do not make you happy.  It is not until you change your belief about something that you will see changes in your life.

If you change your belief to be something like, I can make enough money to be happy, then that is what will happen to you.  You cannot just say it and think it will happen.  You have to believe it in order for it to happen. A belief that you believe about something you have been taught all your life is very difficult to change, but it can be done. You can change the words but it is not so easy to change the true belief about something. When you are truly ready to make changes in your life you will then be ready to change your belief about what you believe to be true for your life.

Try believing in something that you have had a negative thought and belief about. Change your thoughts and your words to being positive and believe it. Let go of any reasons why you think it may not work, just believe in what you say and watch what happens.

Believing is seeing.

Believe it can happen and it will happen.

Angel Amy

 

 

 

I was having a disagreement with someone and it was going on far too long. I was the one who apologized but now I have mixed emotions about this.  Should I have waited for the other person to apologize first?

                                                                                                                                          

 No.   What you did by apologizing was to release the negative emotions that were being attached to you as a result of this disagreement. If you were to have kept your feelings of negativity going this would have resulted in some sort of physical issue for you. You released the negative emotions and you freed your body of what would have happened next.   What you now need to do is not hold any resentment towards being the one to apologize for this too will brings on the negative emotions that will cause illness.

Be happy that you were able to release the ties that were negative. When it comes to an argument it really doesn't matter who is right or who is wrong. You both are right in your own eyes. That is really all that matters. Arguments are mere disagreements that two people have where they cannot agree on the same solution. You don't have to agree with everyone about everything. The argument is not worth the negative feelings that are stored up in your body that later attack you.

Forgive the other person for being their own person. They feel they are right and that is their right. You feel you are right and that too is your right. The other person is only acting out of the lessons they need to learn for their own reasons just as you are learning something for your self as well. Forgive from your heart and you will be releasing all attachments to the experience.

If you can step back and take the emotions out of this situation you will be able to see that this is just one obstacle that you needed to go through in this lifetime. Once you can see this you are then free to move on with your life and release any negative emotions that are attached to this experience.  We are here to go through and learn from our experiences, not to let them consume or controll us.  Let go of the negative emotions and move on.

You are both correct in your own feelings for what ever it is that happened. You both have learned something from this, on higher level and you are both now free to move past this experience.

Angel Amy

 

 

 

It seems like everyone I see lately is giving me a hard time for one reason or another. 

What is going on?

 Most people in your life are there so you can see something. You either have something to learn or something to release.

If someone is giving you a hard time, step back and ask yourself, what is the message in this situation? These occurrences are not to be taken on a personal level. They are happening for reasons you cannot see. Your soul needs to learn something from this. When you can see what it is you need to learn by these experiences that are happening to you, the experiences will go away. 

If you have someone in your life and the relationship with them is beginning to change and become more negative than positive then it may be time for you to release that person from your life. Allow them to be who they are and release them, fully knowing they have served you in some way and the reason for them being in your life is now over. Love them and let them go.

Your experiences are signs that you are growing spiritually and it is now time to move into the next phase of your life. When you can make these changes in your life you will find you will begin to feel the freedom that comes with this release. You will now be free to start having new experiences that are for your greater good and will nourish you and not take from you. 

This is what is called following your path for you greatest good.

Angel Amy

 

 

 

How do I know the man on the street corner, holding the sign saying he needs money to feed his children, is really going to feed his children with the money I give?

  

You don't know. You won't know.  If you are giving from a place of love you should not be worried about what he does with what you give him.

It is when you give unconditionally that you hold your attention on what you think he should or should not do with your money that causes you to feel negative emotions inside yourself.   These are negative emotions that will, later on, become experiences in your reality that are negative.

Give freely and let go of what you give.  What you give out is what you will get back.

When you give unconditionally with an open heart you ask for nothing in return. When you give with an open heart you are able to let go of the outcome. For what you are doing in your act of giving to someone, to anyone, is between you and God, not between you and the person receiving your gift.

That person you see holding a sign asking for money is there for you to see, for sure. He is there to show you what kind of person you are. Are you a person who can give openly and not ask to be shown what he will do with the money, or are you a person who gives with the condition that he do what you wish him to do with the money?  

It is nothing more than your judgment of what you are seeing that will make you feel uncomfortable with this situation. When you send out judgment that too is what you will get back, someone else will judge you at another time. When you can release your judgment of another person and just give, you are giving with an open heart that sends out only Love. When you send out only Love that is what you will get back, only Love. 

When you look at life through your human eyes, with judgment and attachment, you are not able to grow. You stay stuck in the same place until you finally see what is really going on. Nothing is ever what it appears to be when we see through our human eyes. Release the attachment you have on your money and you will no longer feel that negative emotion that is attached to it. 

It is only when we come from a place of love that we can see what is truly going on in our reality. 

Give from a place of unconditional love and you will see the beauty that life gives back to you.

Angel Amy

 

 

 

Do Superstitions really exist?

If you believe that they exist, they do. If you do not believe they exist, they do not.

In other words the law of attraction applies here. If there is something that you believe in, then it is real and will be part of your reality. If there is something that you do not believe in then it will not be part of your reality.

When people say that you should not open an umbrella inside or you will get seven years bad luck, or if you break a mirror or walk under a ladder that the same thing will happen, when people say those things they believe in them and in turn, they attract them. That is why when they say those things the bad luck does appear, because they believe it and they have attracted it. It is your belief in what you say that attracts what happens, all the time.

A belief is a thought you keep thinking. When you believe something to be real, it is. When you don't believe something to real, it isn't. It's your belief in something that will attract something.  It is your thinking the thought that attracts the experience to you.

Superstitions are nothing more than what one person has spoken many, many years ago and has just kept on growing because people have put their belief in that which has been spoken. 

You have bad luck because you believe in bad luck. There is no other reason for your bad luck other than the belief that you have it. When you can break out of your belief that there is bad luck out there and start believing in positive beliefs that is what will begin to start showing up in your world.  Think positive thoughts and you will attract positive experiences.

Change your thoughts, Change your world.

Angel Amy

 

 

 

When someone says to you "Be careful ", what are they really saying?

What they are really saying, first of all, is coming from them and not you. It is not your inner voice speaking to you but someone else's outer voice.

When we live by those words we are living in a very limited world. Which is good for some people but it is not how we are meant to live. 

What I am going to say here is for those who are ready to come alive and take a chance so that life does not pass them by. So that someone does not wake up one day and find that they lived their life the way others wanted them to live and as a result of that choice they find that all they are now feeling is that of emptiness and regret.

We did not choose to come to earth, to play it safe, to be coddled, to hide, or to listen to what others say we should or should not do.   We came to earth for the sheer pleasure of experiencing what earth has to offer. We came to experience life the way we see fit. We are here to reach for what lies ahead, to keep moving forward no matter what the other person says.  We are here to live our lives for ourselves and not anyone else. This is also a lesson that we are here to learn and a very important lesson it is.

When we can realize this, we can break through all the blocks that are hindering us from living. We came here to live, not to be sheltered from life.

When we let go of our judgment of what is right and what is wrong in our world we will begin to see that nothing is wrong, it is all just an experience that we are having and if we can learn something from our experiences we can move forward and gain wisdom and knowledge for what is to come next.

Find the passion in your life. We all have it somewhere in us. Passion is found inside ourselves. It is not something to hold or to give. It is something for us to feel. When you can feel passion for something, realize that this is an indication that you are on the right path. When you can follow your heart you are living life to the fullest and you will soon realize this world that you live in, is a wonderful place to be.

Heaven on earth is a state of mind that can be found in the person who lives life to the fullest without hesitation and without listening to the judgment of others.

Life is a gift that was given to each one of us. It is up to each one of us to choose, for ourselves, how we wish to live each day that is given to us as we move forward in our time here on earth.

So the next time you find yourself saying "be careful" to someone, try telling them to live and see how those words change the way they live that day.  That is what we came here to do.

Angel Amy

 

 

In Loving Memory of My Brother

Gerard Pierce

1957 - 2010

It's not until someone leaves us that we wake up and realize what life is all about or what it truly means to us. When people that we love leave us it makes us reflect on the person that we are. Sometimes we make changes for ourselves that we would not have stumbled upon if the people in our lives did not leave.  When this happens it truly is a gift.  I have found this gift only because of my brothers passing.

My brother has taught me that life is to be lived. No one is certain how much time any of us have here on earth. If we can live life with compassion in our heart then we are more able to live in a more fulfilling and rewarding way.

Some of the qualities that my brother Gerry lived by and taught me while he lived his life on earth are love of family, laughter at all times with the intent of bringing someone joy, going beyond the limits when having a good time, playing the game with passion, having compassion for animals and nature, giving with an open heart and expecting nothing in return. The only expectations he had was living life to the fullest each day.

Gerry loved to give. That was his best quality. When he gave, he gave unconditionally and that was what truly made him happy and that is the most important quality I see in him that I will carry with me as I remember him.

Gerry held great honor and respect in his heart for not only his relatives serving their country but for everyone in the Military.  He was proud of his country and what it stood for.  Peace for all mankind.  It is no wonder his soul chose to leave on National Peace Day.

Gerry has left this world but he leaves behind a gift that he has given to me, the gift of helping me see that no matter what happens, life is meant to be lived and when we can live our life to the fullest with love and compassion we will have no regrets when it's our time to leave.

Gerry will be sadly missed but he will live in my heart forever.

I am very honored to have been, not only his sister, but his friend.

Angel Amy

 

 

I started school and things seem good but it feels like something is missing. Why do I feel this way?

You feel this way because you are not connecting with the inner you. If everything in your outer world seems ok but you are feeling a sense of something missing, then you need to go inside and find what is missing.

The part that is missing is not out there. It's in there, in you. When you find what it is that is missing you will feel better. You won't feel better until you find whatever it is. The piece that is missing can be found in your heart.   

Take some quiet time for yourself and see what calls out to you.   What is it that your heart is telling you? You will know what it is when you find it. Keep searching for that missing piece and search inside yourself not outside.

 The things that are most important in life are always felt with the heart, they are not touched with the hand.

Angel Amy

 

 

 

It seems that lately whenever I go into a store, I always seem to get the slowest checkout person. Why is this?

You are a perfect example of the law of attraction. What you think about, is what you are attracting.

Back when you first began to notice what was going on when you were checking out of the store, you were holding some sort of emotion inside of you. As you returned to the store, your subconscious was already thinking of the last time you were at the store and encountered the slow check out clerk.

Since then, you keep noticing this and each time you notice it, the issue keeps getting bigger and bigger until the issue is so big now that you cannot miss it. 

Once you can clearly see what is happening you can begin to release the emotion that first caused this.

To do that you need to be expectant of a faster moving check out clerk before you next go to the store. When you can hold this thought in your mind before you get to the store you will find this thought takes over the other thought, the more negative thought. What you think about you attract. Once you begin to keep thinking positive thoughts about the store, your experiences with that store will be more positive. 

What you are then doing is sending out positive thoughts that will eventually attract positive experiences. You can use this process with any kind of an issue you have and you will begin to see more of your situations in your life turn positive.

When you are in a state of appreciation for things, it raises your level of awareness and when you can hold positive thoughts, that is then when you will be attracting positive experiences.

Angel Amy

 

 

 

My friend keeps asking me for advice but when I give it to him he doesn't take it. Why does he not hear what I am saying?

Your friend is not hearing what you are saying because he has not learned what he needs to learn from his experience yet. Once he can see what is really going on in his life he will be able to hear what you are saying and move forward.

 When the student is ready the teacher appears.

 We all go through this type of situation at some point in our life. We are asking the question but we are not yet ready to hear the answer. So we continue to search and search for the answer when all we really have to do is look at the situation from a different place. When we can do this, we see the bigger picture of what is going on and we are then able to learn from the experience.

Even though your friend is not hearing your words at this moment, just remember, that at some point he will hear your words. It may take a week, it may take a month, it may take a year, but at some point he will hear what you have said.

 Your friend will hear your words at the right time for his life experience.

Angel Amy

 

 

 

I keep hearing the same name where ever I go. I pass people in stores who are saying this name and I hear it on the radio in songs.  Does this have any significance for me?

Yes, it does. Is there someone in your life now whom you can relate this name to?   If so it is most likely this person is trying to get a message to you. This person is trying to let you know they are thinking of you. They could be calling out to you for you to get in touch with them.  

If this is a name of someone who is in spirit whom you knew on earth, then they are most surely trying to get your attention. Sometimes it can just be to say hello to you and to let you know they are with you. Sometimes they are trying to get a message to you.  Pay attention to what you are thinking of when you hear this name.

If the name you keep hearing has no meaning to you now, it is very likely that your Angels are preparing you for when you do meet someone with this name.  Be aware of the person that you do meet who has this name in the near future. You will most likely meet someone soon that this name is going to have meaning for you. 

Listen to your heart when you hear this particular name that you keep hearing. There most surely is a message there for you.

Ask for clarification when you hear this name and then listen and feel with your heart for the message.

Angel Amy 

 

 

 

What is the best way I can prepare my children for this new school year?

                                                                                                                                            

 The best way for you to prepare your children for the new school year is to understand them at their level. Understand that they are here for their own experiences. They are not here to live in yours. They chose this lifetime to experience ups and downs, good and bad, right and wrong. Anything they experience is just that, an experience. If you can keep that in mind you will be helping them reach their fullest potential while they are here.

When they have an experience try not to judge what happens. Try to listen to them and ask them how they truly feel about whatever it is that has happened.  When you ask them this question your are helping them to look at their own answer to what you have asked and that is where they learn what they need to learn for themselves. This is how they learn to make their own choices for themselves in life. 

Allow your children to experience life knowing that whatever happens is meant to happen and they are only learning to be the people they are meant to be by making their own decisions. The earlier you can practice this way of living the sooner they learn to make their own decisions for themselves. 

This allows them to be their own person.  We all came here to be our own person and this is when they can follow their own path in life that leads them to be who they are truly meant to be.

Allow them to be themselves and accept who they are and you will be helping your children live from a personally empowered place.

Angel Amy

 

 

 

I am at a job where things have been great until recently. I have been having thoughts of leaving but not sure if it's time. How do I know when it's time to leave my job?

  

You will know when it is time to leave your job when you start noticing the signs that are all of a sudden appearing to you. If things have been going good for you and then all of a sudden have begun to go off course, you will know that is when you should begin to think about leaving.

If you are having thoughts about leaving that is a good sign that you are ready for a change. It's when you are no longer inspired at your current job that you will begin to have thoughts of leaving. The thoughts of leaving you are having are only stepping stones for you to advance and grow into another direction. It is your soul telling you that there are more experiences out there that you will encounter if you allow yourself to step into the unknown without any fear.

Don't continue to hold on to your job just because you think you have to. If you are not getting any satisfaction out of your job then it is time to move on to one that will.

In order for you to move ahead on your path you need to let go of the things that no longer serve you.  Just take the first step to moving out of your comfort zone and see how many doors will begin to open for you as you walk through each one, step by step.

Angel Amy

 

 

 

I am getting married and I don't know where to register for gifts. I don't want to make people feel they have to buy something they cannot afford so I just want to register at department stores that have coupons for everyone to make it easier on them. Is this ok to do?

You should register where you want to register. At the places that you want merchandise from. Not because of any coupon or sale items. It is not up to you to figure out how people will buy your gifts.  Register at several places and when choosing your items choose from a variety of prices. There will surely be something on there for everyone to choose from.

Release any expectations. Allow people to do what they wish to do for you and accept the gifts that are given to you. 

A gift is to be just that, a gift. It doesn't matter how much it cost. All that matters is the intention behind it. Any gift that is given with the intention of love behind it is worth more than any dollar amount put on it. If someone cannot afford a gift they too should not feel obligated to buy you anything as by them showing up they are giving their love to you and that is their gift. But also be open to receiving any gift that someone does give. 

Pay no attention to anyone who tells you that someone needs to buy you a gift. The most precious gifts are not bought in a store they are held in the heart.

When you go to register for your gift selection, pick out things that you and your partner want. Allow people to choose what they wish to choose with knowing that they are doing what they want to do when they are picking out a gift for you. When you receive your gifts open your heart to know that each gift you receive is a gift from that particular person and you will be able to feel the love that goes along with that gift.  

You cannot control what anyone gives you. You can control the way you see the gifts that people give to you.   Keeping in mind that the greatest gift is always Love and that is all you should be concerned about on your special day.

Angel Amy

 

 

I am having trouble deciding between the college my parents want me to go and the one I want to go to. How can I choose which one is best for me?

                                                                                                                                                  

You always choose the things you want with your own heart.   When you do this you will find life is much better.   Life will show you the way if you allow yourself to live from your own heart.

It is when we let the opinions and judgments of others, run our lives, that we find life does not show us happiness. For when we listen to others we are then living their lives, not our own.   We all need to make our own decisions for ourselves because we are the ones living from the decisions that have been made. No one can truly know what is best for us. Only we ourselves know what is best. 

If you choose the college your parents want you to go to, you will be living in their world not yours. You will find out sooner or later that you are not happy with the decision that has been made for you and this is when your body will react to how you are now feeling. This is where illness begins.  When you have feelings inside yourself that are making you unhappy your body begins to talk to you.

So when you are faced with decisions like this, ask yourself, what college do I want to go to? Your heart, and only your heart, is the only place you will ever get a true answer for yourself.

Angel Amy

 

 

 

How can I connect with my Angels?

If you want to connect with your Angels you have to believe you can connect. Once you do believe you can connect you have to be open to receiving their messages. Then you have to ask.

Try starting out with asking a question and waiting for the answer. Once you have asked your question be open to any message that comes to you in any form. When you are open to receive you will receive. 

One thing that helps you to clear your thoughts so you can prepare to receive a message is to sit quietly and take 24 deep breaths. This breathing helps you connect and align the human level with the spiritual level.  When you make that connection you will find your Angels are able to communicate with you. You just have to be open to receive and believe.

Ask them to show you their message.  Start out with a small question and work your way up to more important questions.

Your Angels are always with you. Once you believe this and open up to them more fully they can then get their messages to you.

The last thing is to trust what you get. Do not doubt your answers. Stay positive and open. Be willing to hear. Be willing to see. 

Angel Amy

 

 

 

Why is it that every time I say something no one understands what I am trying to say?

Try to remember that we are all here for our own reasons and experiences.  There are no two people who think exactly the same way about everything.  There are some people who are fortunate to have others in their lives who think in a similar way but you will never find two people who think the same about absolutely everything. 

If you put ten people in a room and say one word, you will get ten different responses to whatever that word is.

We all should understand that what we think is only our perception of our own thinking. Don't give your personal power away to another just because they see things differently. We are each her to learn our own lessons and have our own experiences. Don't let anyone take your lessons or experiences away from you.

If this subject is something that is bothering you then it could very well be one of the subjects that you came here to work on for this lifetime. 

It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. If you can stay true to yourself and know that what you say is your own personality and no one else's, it may have a different effect on you the next time you say something that others do not relate to.

Do not allow their response to effect you for when you do, you are then giving away your personal power. You came here to be yourself. You are not a copy of anyone. There are no duplicates of you.  Just be the best person that you can be and don't ever allow anyone to take away your personal power and you will begin to start feeling a lot better about yourself.

        One of my favorite quotes is from Wayne Dyer:

         "Your opinion of me is none of my business".

When you can understand the meaning of that quote you will find you won't care what others think about what you say.

Angel Amy

 

 

Are my Angels with me all the time or just some of the time?

Your Angels are with you all the time. They never leave you. That is why you will often hear people say to you that you are never alone. That is what they mean. Your Angels are always with you.

Because of our free will here on earth we do need to call on them to help us.  Your Angels cannot and will not interfere with what is going on with you in your life unless they have been asked. They need to be invited in.

Invite them in and trust that they are there with you. Listen for their messages.  Messages can come in many ways. Sometimes they show you something on TV, on the radio, in a magazine, on a street sign, or on a billboard, there are many ways the Angels get their messages to you.

Be open to receive them and the messages will appear. The more you ask and stay open to receiving their messages the more messages you will begin to see.

Angel Amy

 

 

 

My boyfriend wants to move back home with his family. I told him it's either me or his family. What is going on?

When you give someone you care about, a choice to make, what you are saying is not coming from a place of unconditional love.

When you can allow others to do what they want to do you will not find yourself going through these negative experiences? It is always your choice to make when it comes to your decisions. But if you are making a negative choice you will surely feel the emotion from that choice.

If you allow your boyfriend to move back home and just keep the relationship alive there is no negative emotion going on. Your relationship would continue to grow and take it's own course in your reality.  You will be offering your boyfriend unconditional love.

When you give your boyfriend a choice to make you are telling him that he can no longer live his life the way he wishes to and he now needs to live by what you think and feel. This will always cause an emotional eruption later on in the relationship.  You will be living a conditional relationship with your boyfriend that will only begin to get worse from now on.

If you cannot deal with your boyfriend moving back home then the best thing for the both of you to do is to let go of each other. You are unable to show unconditional feelings for him and this is not in anyone's highest good.  

You can only live in peace if you are living the path that is for your highest good. If you choose not to live your path from that place you will find you are not able to live in peace and there will be negative emotions that keep showing up day after day.

To truly be happy day after day requires you to choose the experiences in your life that are for your highest good.  To do this you must allow everyone in your life to be free to choose their own experiences that they make for themselves.  When you allow others to do this you will then be living your life from an unconditional way which is for your highest good.

Angel Amy

 

 

How do I let go of the company I was with for over 10 years?  I feel I was pushed out and it just doesn't feel good to me.

You let go by understanding that in order to move forward in life some of the old things need to go. You weren't pushed out in the way you are thinking you were. It is more an action that came about because you yourself have not taken the steps needed for you to move forward. The universe was only using your place of employment to show you that you can no longer stay in the same place you are currently in and move forward with on your highest path here on earth. See this "being pushed out' as your message to move forward. Nothing more.

It is your choice as to how you wish to see it and if you can see it this way you will not have any negative emotions toward this most recent experience. See the blessing in it. You do not yet know the gifts this experience has given you. You will not know them until they happen to you.   Trust that what you have just gone through is now in the past and there is something much better waiting for you.

You let go by thanking that company for the position you had within it and move forward knowing that what waits for you now is going to be much better for you. If you take this positive approach to all experiences that happen to you as you now move forward you will be allowing yourself to walk on your highest path and you will see how your life just starts to fall into place in a much nicer way for you.

This is the positive way to look at your life. You can choose whichever way you want to see your life play out. If you choose to see things in the positive way you will find yourself much happier. If you choose to see things in a negative way and keep placing blame on everyone you will continue to see negative things keep showing up in your life.

It's a choice you are free to make. When you can freely choose the positive ways of thinking and acting you will begin to feel the release of burdens you have carried around with you and you will see your life begin to show you positive experiences more and more.

Don't allow this experience to hold you back from moving forward. Look at the bigger picture here and not allow anyone to take away your self worth. When you can do this you will be able to let it go and move forward with your new life that is waiting for you.

Angel Amy

 

 

 

I am finding I keep making the same mistakes over and over. 

What is really going on?

When you make a mistake, or when you do something that you think is a mistake, try and think of it this way: All experiences that happen to you have been brought forward by your own emotions.   Your emotions will always tell you when you are not moving forward in life. If you find yourself going through the same experience over and over there is an emotion in your body that is trying to be released. 

Always keep in mind that all experiences are situations that you need to go through in order to learn something from that experience. No experience is bad. They are all good for they show you something that you are holding on to that you should be letting go of.

If you keep thinking of your experiences as negative that is what you will keep getting, negative experiences that will continue to hold you back. If you can somehow find the good in your experiences you will then find your experiences show you what you need to know so you can move forward.   It is your choice as to how you view your experiences.

Stop and look at the situation and see if you can identify the underlying emotion that could be causing the repetition.  When you can identify the emotion you will be able to clear it away so it does not repeat itself again.

There is always an emotion that is attached to anything that keeps repeating itself and the emotion is always found in yourself and not in any one or any thing else.    

The emotions that you feel always have something to do with what is going on with you, and when you feel these emotions come up try and understand this is your body talking to you and telling you that something needs to be released. 

Angel Amy

 

 

How do I see the good when things keep going wrong?

Understand that everything that happens to you is a reflection of your thinking. If you see experiences in your reality that you do not like, you need to change your thinking to change your experiences.

When you wake up in the morning and say to yourself, Oh, another day I have to deal with. Then that is what you will be getting, another day that you will have to deal with.

When you wake up and say to yourself, I wonder what good things I will find today or I am happy to be alive and able to experience another day, then that is also what you will get, happy experiences. 

Wake up and feel how you are feeling. If you are feeling down or uneasy or angry, try and change those feelings into positive feelings. Once you change your negative feelings into positive feelings you then change what you are sending out so that the positive is what you will be reflecting back to yourself.

You have to feel the good feelings in order to change the negative that is going on inside yourself.   Once you can think a good thought or see in your minds eye a picture that brings a smile to yourself you will then be changing your negative feelings into positive feelings. Once you begin to do this you will be able to continue to apply this to all your thoughts and you will then begin seeing more positive experiences than negative ones.

If you can practice this every time you get a negative feeling you will be growing into a more positive person. 

Angel Amy

 

 

I have my own ideas for how I want to run things but everyone else keeps telling me to do it a different way.  How can I keep a clear head and listen to my own feelings?

When other people try to give you advice you need to remember they are only telling you how they would do things. The choice is always yours in the end to make for your self. Allow others to share their thoughts with you and take what you like and leave the rest.

When you have ideas that you want to see grow in your reality, keep them. Don't allow others to take them away from you. When you follow your own heart you know you are on the right path. When you do things that you want to do and the way you want to do them you will get a great sense of self worth from your journey.

Even if things don't turn out how you expected them to, you can still see what you have accomplished and see that it was your creation and no one else's. You are meant to follow your own heart no matter what is put in front of you. When you do this you cannot fail. Failure is only the judgment that is placed upon an experience that one person sees as something that did not go the way they wanted it to go.  When you can see that even when things don't go the way you want them to go, everything is in perfect order.  You will not see failure in anything you attempt to accomplish, you will only see the experience.

 If you open your heart and allow your life to unfold it will show you one experience after another that only leads you on the path you were meant to walk. When you look at your ideas in this way you will find the joy in life that we are all searching for.

Listen to your own heart and you will find peace inside.

Angel Amy

 

 

 

In Memory of all who have passed before us.

      

I would like everyone to take this opportunity to remember not only our veterans but all of our loved ones. 

It is in loving them that we have joy for their presence while they were here on earth. For the time we all shared with each loved one. This is not a time for sadness. This truly is a time to look into our hearts and feel the passion that is there for them. 

When we send love to them it helps them with their transition into the spirit world. They are now free of all their earthly responsibilities. There is no more pain for them. They have completed their life mission and are now free to experience another place.

The more we can see all of this the easier we make it for them. It is when we miss them and cry out for them that we hold them back from their next experience. They do look upon us and if they see we are still in pain from their passing they try to stay with us and help us through it. When we realize that they are in a much better place now and at peace, it is then that we can let them go so they can continue on their journey.

Love them and let them go. So they can go on into the spirit world and continue to grow and evolve into the full spiritual beings they are meant to.

When you can love openly with a heart that only wants what is best for them you are able to give that unconditional love that they so much deserve.

Angel Blessings to all our loved ones who have passed before us. We continue to feel them in our hearts as we offer them peace today and all the days that are still to come until we see them again when we too have completed our journey here on earth.

Angel Amy

 

 

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#17

Why do people we work with tell lies about us to get ahead?

 

 

#16

 

You have to remember that we are all here for different reasons. There are some that are still learning about the act of giving. Not everyone has the ability to give. When people don't know how to give they just don't know how and that is probably a good indication of one of the things they came to earth to learn about. 

 

 

 

#15

 

 

 So often we tend to judge people who hurt others. If we can take a closer look at what is really going on with what we are seeing we may be able to see a little better with compassion and understanding. People who are hurt themselves, have a wall that has been built up inside of them that has made them do something that we see as hurtful.

 

#14

 

 

You are fighting a loosing battle here. What you want your child to do is live his life so you can be happy. Parents need to understand that children are here to live life for themselves not for the parent. When you let go of the ties you will feel the tension release.   The more you hold onto the ties the more you will cause resistance between you and your child.   Isn't the real issue here about how the both of you can get along in your home and continue to both live the way you both want to.

The next time your child does something you think is wrong or you judge as a mistake, stop and take a look.  See if you can say to yourself, ok, that was just an experience he/she went through in order to learn something from it.  See if you can just look and not say a word, look and just smile as if it's ok.  For in your silence you are sending a most powerful message of unconditional love to your child.  You will be allowing your child to learn from a much higher level. That will be an experience that you both will cherish. You will feel the love that you have just shared that comes from a place you didn't even know existed.

Then you can then be proud of the parent you have become for you will have found the balance your were searching for in your home.

Angel Amy

 

 

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#12

 

You will find your soul mate when you are happy with yourself. What you have inside of yourself is what you are sending out. If you are unhappy with yourself in some way then you will keep attracting people that are not your match. For when you can finally love yourself and be happy with yourself it is then that the person who is perfect for you, will show up. 

 

#11

There are so many changes happening in our world today. Why are there disasters going on such as floods and fires.

 

 

 #10

 Why do I feel lost in this great big world and why does it seem that no one understands me?

 

There is so much changing in my life right now. My job has changed locations, my friends have left for other positions and life just seems to be getting worse for me.

#8

Every time I do something I fear I am making a wrong decision. Why do I always feel this way and what can I do to get through it?

 

#7

My best friend and I got into a silly argument last week. 
I have known her almost all my life but she has now just walked out of my life.  
I feel devastated.   Why did this happen to me?

The reason we have people in our lives is to show us something, and to help us with our earth lessons.  Your friends agreed to come to earth to help you learn something.  When their job is done, they must, on a soul level, leave us.  

Before you came down here, you agreed upon a certain lesson that you wanted to learn or an experience you needed to have.   Friends are usually only in our lives until their mission with us has been completed.  When this happens to us the best thing we can do is look at what it is that we learned from that person and forgive the situation that caused them to leave.  For they did not leave out of hate or anger for us, they left because their soul purpose with us has been completed.  

It does not make sense to anyone if you can only see this issue on a human level.  Remember you are a spiritual being first, that came to earth for the human experience.  So if you can look at this issue on a spiritual level you will see that all is in divine order.  There is something from that friendship that you need to truly look at and learn from.  There was a reason that person was in your life.  A definite reason, but we cannot turn our back on the lesson we need to learn or it will come around again.  It will just keep repeating itself over and over until we look at the issue and learn the lesson or see the experience as something that helped us in some way.  

If you say that this keeps happening to you, that you find yourself having close friends that you come to trust and love dearly and then all of a sudden you have a disagreement about something silly, you can be assured that this is happening because you have not learned that, which it is, that you need to learn.   Sometimes the lessons we need to learn are about how to love ourselves, or about how to forgive someone who has hurt us. Whatever the reason is, it is something we wanted to learn.  Once you look at the situation and learn the lesson you will not encounter any more of these experiences.  Your lesson will have been learned and you can move on with other areas of your life.  

Everyone in our reality has already been chosen, by us in heaven. That is why they are in our reality.  We are all here to learn and experience for our soul purpose.  Not for the reality of life itself.  These are earth lessons that we need to learn on a soul level.  Sometimes we can see the lesson right away, other times it takes a while to see what we have just gone through and what the real meaning of it is.  If you can view your life as a play that is being played out and you are directing this play, because you need to work on certain qualities that your soul needs to have in order to continue to grow in heaven, you will be able to walk through your situations easier.    

It's your choice.  You can either step up and see the spiritual occurrences going on and learn from them or you can stay where you are and have these occurrences keep evolving over and over.  If you choose to stay where you are, eventually you will give in.  You have to, because you cannot grow until you have learned that, which you have chosen to learn by coming to earth.     

 If you do understand what I have said, the next step for you is to forgive everyone involved.  You did nothing wrong and they did nothing wrong.  There is no blame to be thrown here. No one is at fault here.   No one.   It does not matter who said what or who started this situation. It happened because it was meant to happen. It was just a lesson you needed to learn and you must forgive and let go so this does not manifest inside of your being.  You forgive by understanding on a soul level that this other person was really helping you to learn that which you came to earth to learn.  Be thankful for the learned lesson and let go of it and move on with your life.    If you can see the destruction as letting go of the past and starting new, you may find the road ahead of you is not that bad.  With any destruction always comes rebirth.  Let the new come into your life and do not hold onto the past.  Let it go and only remember the good times.  The good times are the only feelings you should be holding onto now.  When you can do that you will find peace again inside yourself.  The peace that you have been searching for that you now carry with you into the next chapter of you life. Even if you feel you are now alone. For being alone now lets you look at the person you really are.  Look and see if you can find the growth in the person that you have become by having that person be part of you life.

The uncomfortable situations in our lives are only occurrences that are being played out as planned.  If we can look at other people as characters that are playing the part of someone trying to show us our message that we need to learn, it may help you get through that which you thought was so terrible and help you see that you are growing as a spiritual being as well as a human being.

Angel Amy 

 

#6

Why do so many people feel the need to take drugs to feel good?

Drugs are a material substance that people can get their hands on and pretty much get instant relief. Relief from whatever it is that is going on in their reality that they cannot handle.

When people take drugs it gives them an inner feeling. An inner sense of relief. But that relief only lasts for a short while. That is why they turn into addicts. Because they want more of that good feeling. That good feeling that they can only find on the inside of themselves. They are feeling the way they feel because they are forgetting about taking care of their soul. The part of their body that they feed with these drugs can actually get relief by changing their thoughts. They would then be on the path to recovery. They are only concerned with taking care of their outer body not their inner body. This is where healing starts. Inside not outside. All any drug addict wants, is to feel good. They just don't know how to achieve that without the drug. That is why they continue to turn to the drugs. The bottom line in anything that we do in life is ultimately to feel good. That is all any of us really want. That feeling that is so good, is something that is found on the inside of us. Not on the outside. To get a feeling of good inside yourself, don't you think that inside is where you should start to fix it? Inside yourself. When we can look inside ourselves that is when we begin to understand and become aware of who and what we truly are.

We all want to feel good but that feeling can only be found on the inside. It truly is an inside job. Life itself is an inside job. Everything comes from within us. It seems to be so hard for people do find their true self. All they have to do is stop and listen to their bodies. Your body will tell you exactly what is going on. But you have to listen. The part you have to listen to the most is your heart. Your heart has all the answers if you pay attention.

The things that make us happy are not found on the outside of us. Many people think that is where their happiness lies, but it doesn't. Happiness is a feeling you get on the very deepest part of your being, inside your soul. Material matter can never truly make you happy. Material matter only makes you happy for a short while then it soon disappears. True happiness is found in the heart. True happiness is found when you give from the heart and when you receive from the heart. There is no fooling the heart. That is why there are drug addicts today. Because the drug addicts are being thought to think the outside substance is what makes them happy. But it isn't. It's the inner feeling we feel that makes us happy. Drugs are only a temporary fix for the feeling. Loving is where the feeling of happiness truly comes from. You cannot purchase love.
 

"That which is seen in temporary, that which is unseen is eternal".
2nd Corinthians 4:18.

If we can find happiness inside ourselves then maybe we can begin to pass that same feeling along to our children. Our children are just following what they see in us. If we can show them how to be happy and look inside themselves for their answers then maybe this place called earth can grow into a place where people can start living the way they have always wanted to live. A place where they can be happy. A place where love can live.

When we feel that good feeling inside of ourselves that is when we will feel God.

I was guided to give this message this week. I know there is someone out there who needs to hear this. I do believe my Angels will see that the person in need of this message will receive it.

Angel Amy

#5

How do we see the good in the things that we are seeing as bad?

When something happens to us that we see or think is either bad, not working, not what we wanted to happen, or just plain unfair; we need to stop and look at the bigger picture here. We can't always see what is really going on. We think our world is falling apart, we feel lost, we don't know where to turn, we cannot believe this is happening to us. When things like this occur in our reality, you can be assured that you are being guided. If you look with your spiritual eyes you will see that the things that you think you want are not really what you want at all. Things begin to change when we are headed in the wrong direction. This is only divine guidance intercepting your reality. Pay attention and listen to what is really going on. Get your ego out of the way.

Don't forget what this word really means, ego = edging God out. e.g.o.

Allow things to unfold in your life. Let go of what you think you want to happen or what you think should happen. Release your judgment of what is going on and let God do his work. When you see things change in your life that are not good, this usually means you are heading down the wrong path. God is just turning you around. He is repositioning you. Pay attention to that and do not see it in the negative light. It is all good. Pay attention to the signs that you see. This is how God talks to us. This is the way he communicates with us as we are usually so closed minded that we do not allow him to enter into our thoughts. He will work with you if you let him. Allow him to be heard.

Everything is beginning to change in our world. We have to be open to what is going on that we cannot see. We need to start becoming aware of what is going on inside of us. Where is our hearts desire and why are we not following in that direction. Our hearts desire is the path we are all searching for. Why are we not on it?

Things are only negative if you see them as negative. If you see the things in your life as bad they will continue to appear bad. If you can see that the things you are looking at are in divine order and everything has meaning in your life that is when you will start to see the change in all that you see. It will suddenly seem like someone has turned on the light for you and you can now see that which you have had in your heart all along. This is called divine guidance. When you stop controlling that which you cannot control you will be releasing a good part of your ego. The part of you that is your ego is not for you highest good. When you see the good in the things you thought were bad, you will find you can walk through your issue and come out with a better understanding of what it is that you are really seeing.

You still have a choice. We all do. You can either stay in your negative thinking pattern or you can realize there may be another way to see this. Sometimes when bad things happen it is just that there is a lesson in there that we need to learn. Sometimes when we see something as being unfair there is still something we need to learn from that situation. But most of the time when something is not working for us, that purely means it is not right for us. We need to let go of the need for it or the thought that we need this situation to work out the way we want it to, because it never will. That is also what is referred to as divine guidance.

Let go or toss it out, or go around it, do anything besides staying in the moment of allowing this situation to manifest as negative thoughts inside of your body. Release it and move on to something that will bring you joy and happiness.

Once you can see clearly you will be able to recognize other situations when they happen, and you will be able to work those out as well and move on.

Angel Amy

#4

How can I find peace and healing in my life when everything around me is falling apart?

You can find peace by going inside, not outside. You are looking for material matter to give you peace. Material matter can never give you the true peace you are searching for. Peace is one of those things that cannot be seen.

"That which is seen is temporary, that which is unseen is eternal".
2nd Corninthians 4:18

When we can look inside ourselves and understand that this is where our peace lies then maybe we can move to the next step in our lives. We have to come to the understanding that we cannot control the things that go on around us. We can only control out thoughts and our reactions to what is going on. If you can hold onto the thought that things are happening in just the way they are suppose to happen, it may help you.

We all came to earth for our own reasons. We are all here to experience and to learn something different. If we can see that we are learning from the experiences that are happening to us, the experiences my make more sense. If you can take the experience you are having and truly look at it, look at it as if you are looking through a window at yourself and your experience, what do you see? Can you look and see that all is well and this is just something you need to go through? Can you see that if you could just be at peace with this situation it would fix itself? Can you see that there is a lesson to be learned here? Can you see that you are loved and cared for by God? Can you see that you are not walking through this situation alone? Can you feel love inside yourself?

Stop what you are doing and embrace that. Feel the love flowing inside your body. Feel the love that is being guided to you, feel the healing taking place inside of you.

This is a new day. Be at peace within yourself and allow it to flow from you. When all you have inside yourself is love, then love is what you will give to the world. That which you give, you will receive. The more love you can give to others, the more love you will find flowing into your world. When you allow love to flow, that is when you will begin to see your world come together. The things that you once saw as falling apart will look differently to you now that you are looking through your loving eyes.

Walk through your experiences. If there is a lesson to be learned, learn it so the lesson does not repeat itself, and keep yourself moving forward. You will find there is light at the end of the tunnel if you believe there is. Do not look at your life through negative eyes. The more negativity you see the more negativity you will attract into your life. Look at your life as something you are going through that you chose to go through. Take responsibility for yourself and your life.

Do not place blame anywhere. No one is to blame for anything going on here. Everything is happening the way it is suppose to happen. If you can accept this, then you have a better chance of finding the peace inside yourself that you are so desperately searching for. You have the ability to look inside yourself and find the peace you know is in there. When you find that peace within yourself you will find peace outside of yourself. That is also when the pieces to your life will find you.

There is much love and healing coming to each and every one of you within this message I am sending.

Angel Amy

#3

I keep applying for a job but the owner keeps telling me he is waiting for the right position to open up.
Several positions have opened but he tells me I am over qualified for them.
He says they are not tight for me even though I know I am qualified. What is really going on here?

When we see obstacles in our way it is just God letting us know that we are on the wrong path and he is asking us to take another path. When we fight something, that means we are out of alignment with what God wants for us. Obstacles are put in our path for reasons. They are road blocks that just mean we should go in another direction. This is the case for all road blocks we see. Whether it be a job, a relationship, something we are buying, something we want to do, anything. When we run into any kind of a block we should stop and look at what is going on. Can we see the message from God.

We have to watch for the signs. The signs that are sent by God to help us on our Journey. The road block is a sign we are not going in the direction where we need to be going. If you persist at trying to make your way through these road blocks you will only find yourself getting aggravated, frustrated and down right angry with the situation at hand. Even if you are lucky enough to get through a road block, God has a way of telling you that you still made the wrong decision. You will continue to find other road blocks after you have gone through the first one. If a job is not right for you, be assured you will be shown just that.

Have you ever come across a road block and said, Lord, why is this happening to me. Or, Why does this keep happening to me. When you keep seeing an obstacle in your way, again and again, it is only God speaking to you.

Your answer is very simple. It means, this is not for your highest good. You should turn around and go in another direction. Figure something else out, figure out another way of doing what you want to do, look at it differently, change your thinking. Try something else, or just wait a while and ask the Lord to show you a sign that you can follow into the right direction. If you ask, he will guide you.

When you are faced with being turned down for a job that you know you are qualified for, it is only God telling you that this is not the right one for you. He is saying this is not the one for your highest good and if you will allow him to help you he will show you the way. It could be that there is another job that is truly better than the one you are applying for. If we can let go and have faith that God does know what is best for us, he will show us the way. If we can trust what we do not see, if we can let go of our ego, if we allow God to enter into our hearts and have patience, we will then find the happiness we are searching so desperately for.

Angel Amy

#2
 

"Why are some people mean and down right ignorant to other people -
how do we deal with them and not let them hurt our feelings?"

Understand, that when someone is mean, rude, ignorant, or whatever, to you, that this is something that has been put in front of you on purpose so you can learn something from it. If you can think of your life as a Play. Being played out and you are the director and the other person is the cast member. The cast member has already been selected by you in heaven, before you came down here. This person is your friend in heaven. This person is here to help you learn something that you needed to learn in this lifetime.

The ones you despise the most are most likely your closest spiritual friends in Heaven. It is not by chance that this person is in your life. They are definitely here for a reason. The reason is for you to learn from the situation. If you see someone as being mean to you, then ask yourself, what is it in me, that I am mean to someone else about. What have I been doing in my life that someone else may see me being mean about. When you can truly look inside yourself and find the answer and bring it out into the light to deal with yourself, then you will find that the mean people in your life go away or just plain change.
 

Try and look at what it is that is being challenged here and you will see that which you need to learn. It could be to love yourself more, it could be to accept yourself more, it could be to stop judging other people, it could be to forgive. Whatever the reason, you answer lies in what you think you are seeing. Do you ever find a situation where you think someone is being mean but others around you cannot see the same thing. That is because the lesson is for you and not the others that are with you. If there are people with you that can also see the meanness, then the lesson is also for them as well.

The people in your issue really aren't being mean. They are just being there so you can see what you need to work on while you are here on earth. If you do not address this and clear it up, if you avoid it in some way, you will find this issue coming up later on down the road. It will just keep repeating that, which you are seeing as being mean. It will haunt you until you have learned the lesson. You have already told all the participants in this issue that you needed to learn this lesson while on earth, playing out this reality and everyone involved has agreed to help you learn that, which it is, that you need to learn.
 

You need to change your thinking about them.. It is all about you and not about them, at all. Right now they are mirroring back that which you see inside yourself. When we see meanness in someone else that is a sign for us to stop and take a good look at what it is inside of us that we think we are mean about. This goes for any other quality that we see in someone else as well. This goes for the good as well as the bad.. If we see others as loving people then we are reflecting that which we have inside of ourselves.

We give to others, that, which we have inside ourselves.

You deal with them, by learning the lesson here. As soon as the lesson is learned, the situation will go away or stop. When the lesson is learned you need to forgive all parties involved. You need to forgive yourself and the other person. The act of forgiving someone clears the air. You release a great deal of negativity which has not been for your highest good. You will feel the change.

Angel Amy

#1

Should we accept invitations to functions that we really do not want to attend?

No, we should not.

When we accept an invitation to something, no matter what it is, Wedding, anniversary, cookout, house party, dinner, anything, if we truly do not want to go, we should not.
 

Why? Because when we go to something that is not going to make us happy, we are not following our own path. When we go to something that our heart truly is not in line with, it will cause us to have other feelings that are not good for our bodies. When we would rather be doing something else we are only denying our own happiness.

If we go because we do not want to hurt the feelings of the other person, we are not being true to our self. It is not wrong or rude of us if we do not attend an invitation that we do not want to attend.

If the other person does get hurt by our decision, we are not to blame. There is no blame here, it is just each persons own self worth being brought out. I don't mean to say that we shouldn't be helping people. Of course we should, but only if our heart truly wants to... I am only referring to the times that our heart just is not in agreement with a situation. We cannot live to please others. Pleasing someone is different than helping someone.

One of my favorite sayings is by Wayne Dyer, "Your opinion of me is none of my business".

I love that... Because it is your opinion that is separate from me, and I should not allow the opinion of someone else to take away my self worth.

We do not mean to hurt anyone by refusing an invitation. If the other person gets hurt, it is only because their self worth is not as strong as it should be. It is just my decision for me to accept or not accept, for whatever reason. My reasons are mine. Not the other persons.

We are here to live to make ourselves happy, we are not here to live to make others happy. Each person needs to find their own happiness and allow others to be themselves without judgment, even though we do not know the reasons why. When we do this, that is when we can share and offer ourselves to others more fully. That is when we start to become complete within ourselves.

We need to look at our own self worth. We should not rely on others to make us happy. Our happiness comes from within ourselves, not outside of ourselves. We need to let it go and understand that all is in divine order. The answer that one person receives from an invitation should never be judged.

When we are not happy inside ourselves, we are limiting the flow of happiness and therefore, unable to share happiness with others. When we are happy, we have more love within ourselves that we are then able to share with others.

This is just one step to finding peace inside ourselves.

Angel Amy

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